Here's the thing

Coffee lover
Shower singer
Gmail dependent
Berkeley graduate
Twenty three years old

(Previously: A Day in a Life in a Photo)

Look so this is going to be graphic but -

I hear you two fighting sometimes. I hear how you are upset, how he was a jerk and made you feel like you’re gross because you have your period. I hear you say that it’s not your fault, that it’s natural & that he made you feel shitty. I hear you arguing like this in the shower together after sex.

And then I think of the boy in my life. I think about how me tells me I’m beautiful. He tells me my vagina is beautiful and strong and electric and incredible. I think of how he makes me feel the opposite of gross, how he makes me feel so whole. And how after sex, you’ll find us so at peace - so happy & comfortable together because what else would sex be other than an act to take care of each other, to build each other up?

Don’t let yourself get torn down babygirl.




every woman on tumblr should have this on their dash

And every man

Look how nobody’s yelling or arguing or making things into a competition. Look how this is to straight up educate people through a different perspective. Look how effective that makes the message.

(Source: sizvideos, via surmitcrab)


I want a relationship that’s just like super cool friendship with like kissing

(via swooned)

We can’t live for each other, solely

Because the sun is bright

The stars are kind

And against all odds, we are whole and well as just ourselves.

It’s bedtime & all I can think is how

being with you is the shower after a long plane ride, the bed after an all-nighter, the water after a workout

it’s the perfect bite of cake through all the layers, the subway door stopping right at your feet, the extra hour of sleep you get in the fall

it’s laughing until we can’t breathe, breathing each other in, interlacing our vulnerabilities -

vulnerable & raw, left falling into your arms, my heart on my sleeve, my head on your chest, and our breathing in perfect unison until darkness, sleep, and peace